July 2010

The silly (compulsive) addiction to silly bands

If you don't know what silly bands are, you must not have an elementary-school aged child around. I'd heard of the latest fad before the rival of my goddaughter and her family for a visit, but I'd never owned one. Never really aspired to, either. Now I'm wearing four and have several more.

Here's the scoop. Some genius invented a rubber band which comes not only in many, many colors, but in shapes. All kinds of shapes. Bags and bags of them in every souvenir shop and elsewhere.

My current collection includes a blue bunny, a lime green palm tree, a yellow flower and an orange flower and a blue dinosaur. Some of these glow in the dark, which is a little disconcerting when going into the bathroom in the middle of the night!

Mine were presented to me by my goddaughter's five-year-old. His two-year-old sister immediately claimed the first batch. "Mine," spoken loudly and convincingly, is one of her favorite words. I have a new collection. You don't argue with a princess!

Yesterday the kids' grandparents -- old friends from my college era -- and I went to visit some of my family. We were all wearing silly bands, something duly noted by my cousins. At their house, though, only a five-year-old has them. Perhaps he hasn't learned to share...or we're just far too compliant with the the little ones around here.

At any rate, aside from wishing I'd been the one to dream up this concept, I love the idea that all the kids in the house are sharing and trading these things without fussing and fighting. They're a relatively inexpensive way to put a smile on a kid's face and to unite generations at a family gathering.

That's probably giving way too much importance to a rubber band, but, hey, I'm just a kid at heart, and I love my blue bunny!

Healthcare as a retirement hobby

A few years ago a friend of mine who'd just turned 65 and signed up for Medicare bemoaned the fact that suddenly it seemed all he was doing was going to doctor appointments. Lately I'm seeing the same syndrome among way too many of my friends.


I'm here to tell all of you that seeing doctors is not supposed to be a retirement hobby!! Surely there are better things you could be doing with your time.


Unfortunately, despite my objections, it seems that with age comes a variety of aches, pains and other ailments. In today's healthcare environment that means test after test after test. In the olden days doctors frequently made a diagnosis from experience, not a boatload of tests mostly designed to cover themselves in case of lawsuits. A good diagnostician is worth his or her weight in gold. I was lucky enough to have one of those when I worked for Jackson Memorial Hospital in Miami. I frequently had two-minute consults in the hallways and he always got it right with a minimum of testing. Oh, how I miss that!


I've talked to four friends in recent days who've been spending their weeks running from one doctor appointment or test to another. I've even had my own doctor visits, including one thoroughly frustrating one to consult for a colonoscopy, which I scheduled, only to be told later in the day that it either had to be rescheduled sooner or I'd have to have another doctor visit preceding it. Because moving the test wasn't an option, I'm now going for a second office visit to prove I'm still standing before the colonoscopy. Crazy!


All of this makes me wonder if on some level I wasn't meant to live in a bygone era when people avoided doctors altogether, because the news was never good and always involved more tests. I know this is a risky practice, so I'm trying very hard not to let my stubbornness -- and nostalgia -- overrule logic.


In the meantime, I wish all of you good health. Take care of yourselves. Exercise. Eat right. Maybe you'll be among those lucky ones who can spend retirement traveling places far more interesting than your nearest medical center. I certainly intend to try.


 


 

Memory tricks

The older we get, the more tricks we seem to need for triggering our memories. Proust, of course, wrote a lot -- a whole lot, in fact -- about scents and the memories they inspire. I know that works for me. One whiff of salt air, and I'm at the beach. The aroma of lilacs puts me at my beach house.


However, it was a book I recently read that took me back to the time when I was first starting my journalism career. A colleague from my years at The Miami News mentioned that he'd just read a book about the long-gone Columbus, Ohio newspaper for which I'd once worked. He noted that I was mentioned in it. Off I went to hunt it down.


Late Edition was written by Chicago journalist Bob Greene (not to be confused with Oprah's Bob Greene), who, like me, began his career at the Columbus Citizen-Journal back in the '60s. Bob was a very young summer intern then. I was just out of journalism school at Ohio State and working as a general assignment reporter. Though our experiences in that newsroom were different, the people he writes about were the same.


For some 300 pages, read over the course of a few days, I was back in that mezzanine level newsroom with people who greatly influenced my life. Greene captured not only the essense of their wonderfully quirky personalities, but the joy of working for newspapers when newspapers really meant something in a community. There were the cynical, but always kind photographers Dick Garrett and Hank Reichard. A sports department filled with more unique souls who treated the young summer intern Greene with kindness and respect. Each name mentioned brought back a hundred memories. He even nailed with absolute perfection the tough-as-nails, but wonderful waitress at our favorite dinner spot. I suspect more than one of the characters I've put into the diners in my books have been loosely inspired by Thelma.


I am so grateful to Bob for giving me this chance to indulge in nostalgia for that time in my life. I'm sharing the book with others who were there back then, and it's triggering even more memories for all of us as we compare notes on those days.


For many of you a book about a long-dead newspaper in a town you might never have visited, much less lived in, may not matter much, but I recommend Late Edition for you for entirely different reasons. With newspapers around the country faltering and journalism changing, this book is a reminder to all of us of what it meant to be a reporter way back when. Back then, journalists grew up understanding how important it was to get the facts right, knowing that the people we wrote about in the most tragic circumstances deserved respect, and believing that our readers counted on us for the information to start their day.


Much of that has changed, I fear, as has the perception of the media in  general, and not for the better. This book may be an important reminder, not just to you, but to the industry at large, that to be respected, the old rules about objectivity should never be cavalierly tossed aside in favor of sensationalism or bias. Maybe we can get some balance back in reporting before the bloggers of the world take over with opinions, rather than facts. I'd like to think so, anyway.


Seems like a good thing to remember on the Fourth of July, that there are responsibilities that go along with freedom of the press. Happy birthday, America!! And thank you, Bob Greene, for reminding me of all this.